Toddlers learn bladder control at their own pace, so try not to compare your child’s progress with others. Potty training takes patience; it’s a big step for your little one. These potty training methods and tips can help you support them calmly through the process.
Potty or toilet training will only be frustrating for both you and your toddler if you introduce it too early.
Look out for these signs of potty training readiness:
• They’re aware of their dirty or wet nappy
• They know when they’re weeing and might even tell you they’re doing it
• They show interest in the toilet and may want to copy you
• Their nappy stays dry for at least 2 hours, which can be a sign they are starting to hold wee for longer
• They fidget, squat or hide when making a bowel movement
Choose a time when your family routine is relatively settled and you can be consistent for a few days. Here are some general potty training techniques for parents:
• Ask your toddler regularly throughout the day if they need to use the potty
• Talk to them about wet and dirty nappies to help them understand
• Consistency is important, so share your potty training routine with others who also care for your toddler
• After meals is generally a good time to encourage them to sit on the potty
• If you’re going out, take a portable potty or plan where toilets are available
• Changing their nappy in the bathroom can help them recognise that this is where they go when they need the toilet
• Leave the potty somewhere easy to see and access
• Give them a book or favourite toy to help them stay seated on the potty
• Dress them in clothes that are easy to remove; the fewer buttons and zips, the better
• Offer plenty of encouragement when they succeed. A sticker chart can provide positive reinforcement
• If you know when your toddler usually has a bowel movement, offer them the potty around that time
• Never punish them for having an accident
• Keep their nappy on at night until they’re ready for night-time training, such as when they regularly wake with a dry nappy
Frequent accidents are a completely normal part of the learning process. There may be many puddles to mop up and clothes to wash, but try not to make a big fuss. Be prepared and keep cleaning products and mattress protectors handy.
Many parents start potty training between two and three years old, but every child is different. Your toddler may be ready earlier, or they may need more time to develop reliable bladder and bowel control.
You want your toddler to get used to the potty and make it part of their daily routine. But if they become upset by the idea, they may not be ready yet. Keep the nappy on and try potty training again after a little time.
Potty training happens at a different pace for every toddler, and setbacks are completely normal, so try not to worry if progress comes in fits and starts. If your child has hard or painful poos, fewer than 3 poos a week, bleeding, tummy pain, soiling, or starts holding poo in, speak to a doctor or healthcare professional.
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